Jesus Over Everything: Success
Overview
Today’s culture often measures success by wealth, status, career accomplishments, or influence. Social media highlights the lives of people who seem to have "made it," and society tells us that more possessions, promotions, or fame lead to happiness. However, Jesus offers a counter-cultural view on success. In Mark 8:36-37, He poses a powerful question: What benefit is there to gain everything the world offers if, in the process, you lose your soul? Jesus challenges us to reconsider what we are striving for.
True success, according to the Bible, is not about fame or fortune but about faithfully following God. For instance, someone might be a CEO, achieve financial prosperity, or gain widespread recognition—but if they neglect their relationship with God, that success is ultimately empty. On the other hand, a person who lives humbly, serves others, and seeks God’s will may not receive worldly accolades but is truly successful in the eyes of God.
Consider the story of the rich young ruler, who we referenced in our last Table Talk, Jesus Over Money, (Matthew 19:16-22), who had everything by worldly standards but could not give up his wealth to follow Jesus. His attachment to material success kept him from eternal life. In contrast, the Apostle Paul, who endured hardship, imprisonment, and suffering, said in 2 Timothy 4:7, “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.” Paul’s success was defined by his faithfulness to God, not by worldly accomplishments.
This discussion will help us redefine success by focusing on spiritual growth, serving others, and honoring God above all else.
Read
Mark 8:36-37 NIV
What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul? Or what can anyone give in exchange for their soul?
Matthew 6:33 NIV
But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.
Discuss
How do you define success in your life? Has that definition changed over time?
What are some examples of worldly success that people chase today?
Why do you think Jesus warns against gaining the whole world but losing your soul?
How can pursuing success impact our relationship with God and others?
Can someone be successful in the eyes of the world and still honor God? Why or why not?
What are practical ways we can shift our focus from worldly success to spiritual growth?
How can you tell when you're placing too much value on achievements and not enough on your faith?
What are some ways you can honor God with your work, goals, and achievements?
Call to Action
Assess Your Priorities: Spend time in prayer and reflection, asking God to reveal areas where you may be prioritizing success over your spiritual life.
Redefine Success: Write down a personal definition of success that aligns with biblical principles, and commit to living by it.
Focus On Faithfulness: This week, choose one area of your life where you can focus on faithfulness to God instead of outward achievement, and take a specific action to honor Him in that area.
